Online or in-person, helping you build more harmonious relationships with yourself and others.

Life is full of stressors, but when stress and anxiety become chronic, they can take a toll on our wellbeing. I will listen to your unique story, meet your stress and anxiety with care, and support you in developing self-compassion, self-regulation tools and strategies that will equip you to navigate life’s challenges with increased resilience and sturdiness.

Traumatic events from our past mayinform how we live in the present. If you’re feeling stuck in old stories that no longer serve you, counselling can support you in developing personal insight, integrate new-found self awareness and self-compassion, and empower you to redefine your preferred future.

In the mirror of relationship, we can sometimes catch a glimpse of unconscious patterns that are causing unintentional harm to ourselves or others. Counselling can support you in becoming more aware and intentional in your parenting, or relationships with others. You have the ability heal relational wounds that you may have inherited, and develop more fulfilling expressions of love and connection in your life.

Youth today are suffering from increasing rates of anxiety and depression. Counselling can provide a non-judgemental safe space to share, learn about boundaries and self-advocacy in relationships, explore self-expression, develop strengths and unique gifts, and learn skills and tools that build social-emotional resilience, setting them up for a bright future.

Life transitions are inherently destabilizing, whether it’s becoming a parent, the loss of a loved one, losing a job or relationship or experiencing a life changing accident. I am here to listen and hold compassionate space for your grief process, as long as it takes. When you are ready, I am here to support you in integrate these experiences through meaning-making, as you journey forward.

Chronic pain and medical complications can have a significant impact on your quality of life. When families are involved, this can take a toll on the family system as a whole. I am passionate about supporting families and individuals on these difficult journeys, guiding them towards post-traumatic growth, connection, compassion and resilience.

  • Narrative Therapy
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Existentialism
  • CBT & DBT
  • Solution-Focused
  • Mindful Self-compassion
  • Somatic tools for nervous system regulation
  • Mindsight relational awareness techniques
  • Breath work
  • Yoga & Meditation
  • Artistic expression

“Knowing oneself comes from attending with compassionate curiosity to what is happening within.” — Gabor Mate

Patterns Counselling

Kate Walker, Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) in Nanaimo, BC.

Contact: info@patternscounselling.com ph: 250-986-7656